There’s been a lot posted on here and it seems that nobody is budging on there stand point. And to be honest, from what has ben said I wouldn’t budge whether I was Irishboy or any of the eL supporters considering the posts.
Here’s my tuppence worth though. I like you Irishboy, saw my first match in England in the early 80’s and funnily enough it involved Sunderland although I was going to see Manchester United. I would imagine I’m also about the same age as you (early – mid 30’s?).
I spent years arguing your arguments right up until about 7-8 years ago. I didn’t (and still don’t) live ‘near’ to an eL club but was taken on occasion to Bohs matches as my Dad’s from Cabra. I would have always looked out for their results and I was even ‘emotional’ when they won the Champions League in ’99. I travelled as much as I could to see them play at Old Trafford and even got an away leg of a Champions League match against Bayern into the bargain. But it is expensive to follow ‘your club’ in this fashion.
So bearing all of this in mind I don’t think you and I are at all dissimilar.
Thing is this, you probably need a reason to go to watch eL football. For me there were two reasons. Firstly I wanted to give up smoking so needed something other than going to the pub on a Friday night to do and also I was beginning to question myself as a football fan. Why, if I purport to being such a great football fan (as everyone I knew would be of the opinion), was I not going to watch live football at any chance I could get? There was no answer to this except that I wasn’t as great a football fan as I thought I was or as others thought I was.
Football is a participation sport. Whether you play it or support it. I played for years but rarely went to support. When I stopped playing, I only looked at it on the TV so therefore I was not participating.
Deciding to go to watch eL on your own (which is basically what I did) requires a leap of faith and an open mind. 7/8 years later I could not bear the thought of missing Bohs playing. I enjoy meeting with all of the friends I’ve made down the years at Dalymount whether home or away. The whole social aspect of my support for Bohs is as much a part of it as is going to watch the football.
As I’ve said, you need some sort of justification to go and watch and eL game. If you can’t find that then pity for you. If you can I guarantee you, if you go and give it a chance, it will give you back more than you can imagine. And you can still hold onto your Sunderland.
BTW, I’m going to Milan on Wednesday to see United reach the final of the Champions League!

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