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Originally Posted by Babysis

its just a waste of time.

ha ha, indeed.

Originally Posted by Eire06

Very true...

another few are Flirting, kissing and buying new shoes

I never tried flirting really, seems so shallow really. Why would I try to get a good looking girl interested if I don't know if she's not a total cow ? The longest lasting interpersonal connections arise from spiritual bonds rather than sexual attraction.

Originally Posted by Gerrit

I never tried flirting really, seems so shallow really. Why would I try to get a good looking girl interested if I don't know if she's not a total cow ? The longest lasting interpersonal connections arise from spiritual bonds rather than sexual attraction.

How is it shallow, never said they had to be good lucking...
You don't have to flirt with someone good lucking you can flirt with anyone.. Try it it's fun promise

But why would I flirt with a non goodlooking girl ?? Flirting is per definition trying to attract someone at first sight, isn't it ?

Originally Posted by Gerrit

But why would I flirt with a non goodlooking girl ?? Flirting is per definition trying to attract someone at first sight, isn't it ?

No not necessaraly you can be attaracted to someone who you don't find physically attractive or are you to shallow to know that

But that would mean I'd already know her and am attracted to her personality. And if I already know her, it's not a flirt anymore ?
Flirt = with someone you just meet in a pub, along the street, in the cinema, ... in the football stadium

No not necessaraly you can be attaracted to someone who you don't find physically attractive or are you to shallow to know that

ok a person you see first time, how are you attracted to them other than physically

you are not thinking oh he looks like he has a wonderful personallity, hmm maybe he is well endowed im going to flirt with him now.

by definition if there is a lovely girl there by the bar smiling at ye and a minger by teh bar beside her, you are going to go for the hot one smiling at you ( then realising she is smiling at someone behind you and you just go with the mingin one anyhow, hehe )

Originally Posted by Gerrit

But that would mean I'd already know her and am attracted to her personality. And if I already know her, it's not a flirt anymore ?
Flirt = with someone you just meet in a pub, along the street, in the cinema, ... in the football stadium

You can flirt with people you already know...
I always do it..

paul_oshea you might have only been in contact with them through e-mails on the phone, through work ect.. and as above you can know them already you don't need to have just met them

Originally Posted by Eire06

How is it shallow, never said they had to be good lucking...
You don't have to flirt with someone good lucking you can flirt with anyone.. Try it it's fun promise

hear hear! anyway, really good looking guys are sometimes bigheads so!

Originally Posted by kerr's tribe

hear hear! anyway, really good looking guys are sometimes bigheads so!

Good someone here to back me up..
Can't you flirt with anyone even if you've known them for ages...

hear hear! anyway, really good looking guys are sometimes bigheads so!

ah no in fairness peadar is a sound enough lad.


eireo6, the point is you still have met them whether it be online or whatever, f course you can also flirt online. you can flirt with someone you know, messing but nothing is ever going to come of it.

gerrits point is that if you are in a bar etc and you just see someone.

the intention of flirting is generally to try and pull the person.

Originally Posted by paul_oshea

ah no in fairness peadar is a sound enough lad.


eireo6, the point is you still have met them whether it be online or whatever, f course you can also flirt online. you can flirt with someone you know, messing but nothing is ever going to come of it.

gerrits point is that if you are in a bar etc and you just see someone.

the intention of flirting is generally to try and pull the person.

not necessarily!

Originally Posted by paul_oshea

gerrits point is that if you are in a bar etc and you just see someone.

the intention of flirting is generally to try and pull the person.

I never mentioned flirting in a bar...
Was talking about flirting in general...

just to remind you he said

I never tried flirting really, seems so shallow really

and

Flirt = with someone you just meet in a pub, along the street, in the cinema, ... in the football stadium

Which is crap really

Originally Posted by kerr's tribe

not necessarily!

Exactly, it can somethimes just be fun to flirt. Can be a bit of a boost.

If you know him/her for ages, I wouldn't call it flirting, maybe I'm wrong however...

and most people flirting do it to at least end up kissing if not something else physically... Be honest about that people

and yeah sure you can play attraction games with someone online, and I'm not just talking about webcams... It's even nicer when you don't see each other and leave it to the illusion

Originally Posted by Gerrit

If you know him/her for ages, I wouldn't call it flirting, maybe I'm wrong however...

What would you call it then??

and most people flirting do it to at least end up kissing if not something else physically... Be honest about that people

I hope not I flirt with loads

As long as your not leading someone on, what harm??

It would be my intention But then again I'd only flirt with girls I'm really interested in. If I just pick one in Temple Bar I'd probably end up with someone very far from my own personal interests.