Lone mothers' views
The criticisms of social welfare in Kevin Myers's and others' contributions imputed a range of motives and characteristics to unmarried mothers in particular. My own fieldwork research with lone mothers suggests quite a nuanced picture.
Young unmarried mothers after becoming pregnant came to see social welfare as a route to survival, but this was never a plan. On the contrary, the choice to become a lone mother arose from a deep-seated commitment to motherhood (and abhorrence of abortion and adoption), and was made in the knowledge that while social welfare offered financial support, it was hardly likely to be adequate.
Lone mothers attempt to develop strategies that will lead them to financial independence: they are conscious of the constraints of young children and express a strong preference not to work when their children are young.
Equally, they are clear about their fundamental desire to be independent, to improve their skills and education, and to work.
The task for public policy now is to build on the positive motivations of lone mothers and to create the context in which they can overcome the obstacles to independence: low income mothers in general, whether married or unmarried, require support with childcare costs in particular.
The consequences of lone parenthood
Is it the case that lone parents' children in general are social failures, exhibiting higher rates of school drop-out, criminality and so on?
The direct answer here is that there is no proper longitudinal study of families and children in Ireland, and therefore no basis for generalising about what influences the development of children in different types of family.
A national longitudinal study of children will probably commence this year and we must await the results of this research.
On the basis of existing international studies, two points can be made that may be relevant to Ireland: it is difficult to disentangle the effects of poverty from those of lone parenthood on children's development; and, the quality of the relationships in family settings is more important than the type of family in which children are reared.
Anthony McCashin is lecturer in Social Policy in Trinity College and author of Lone Mothers in Ireland: A Local Study
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