Dessie Baker: Abuse endemic in football culture
yesterday at 5:50 pm
The racism scandal surrounding Eamon Zayed is regrettable, but abuse is part and parcel of football and
sometimes you just have to take it on the chin, writes Dessie Baker
Obviously, all the talk in recent days has surrounded what happened to Eamon Zayed and I can’t really say too much about it because I don’t know all the facts.
I’ve obviously read about it myself and I find it hard to believe
because I know when I was at Rovers, incidents like that never happened. To be honest, throughout my entire playing career, I’ve rarely if ever heard anything like the things that are supposed to have been said to Eamon Zayed.
I don’t know the full story, but from my point of view,
knowing what sort of a club Rovers are and the players that are there at the moment, I wouldn’t think that anything was said and
if it was, it could well have been taken completely out of context.
I don’t know Eamon personally; I played against him a few times throughout my career. He’s a good player and it’s unfortunate that he’s been caught up in this because he’s been having a really good season so far.
Not only is it unfortunate for Eamon, but it’s unfortunate for whoever is alleged to have abused him because you don’t want to get caught up in something like that. I know if someone accused me of saying something like that and I hadn’t, I wouldn’t be too pleased.
Abuse
I know it’s a big issue,
but I think Eamon is better off leaving it all behind him and concentrating on doing what he does best, which is scoring goals. Over the course of my career, I got plenty of abuse from opposition players and supporters and although none of it was racist, it was still pretty bad.
It was probably at its worst when I was playing for Shelbourne a few years back, but it happened at the other clubs I played for as well. To be honest, there’s loads of stuff that goes on on the pitch that nobody knows about and if you heard some of the stories, you’d be shocked, but you just have to block it out and get on with it.
It would be nice if you could stamp out abuse, especially racist abuse, in football but at the same time, it would be nice to stamp out two-footed tackles, elbows and diving.
Players would be calling you names, pinching your arm or your leg or standing on your toes to try and get you riled up and it’s not just players either. Earlier on this year, Michael O’Neill got into trouble for some comments he made, but as he said at the time, it was in the heat of the moment.
Things happen on the pitch during a game, but once the final whistle goes, certainly in my case anyway,
you’d shake your man’s hand, have a little chat and forget about it.
Obviously, racism is stronger than some of the run of the mill abuse you’d get on the pitch, but as I said, I rarely encountered it during my career even though I played with a few black players.
Saying that, I know Mark Rutherford used to get a bad time of it up in Derry sometimes. It was funny with Mark, in the days before games when we’d be playing certain teams or in certain places where he used to get a hard time, he’d often turn up to training with an injury just beforehand.
Whenever it did happen, though, you might say to Mark ‘Jaysus Mark, you’re getting an awful time of it’ and he’d just say it was part and parcel of football. I might get slaughtered as much if not more than Mark during some games and personally I used to take it with a pinch of salt which is what a lot of people do.
In fairness to the authorities, they do try and stamp it out but there’s only so much they can do. When I was playing we were often asked to wear anti-racism t-shirts during our warm up and there would be press conferences and stuff like that and to be fair, what happened with Eamon Zayed would have been an isolated incident, certainly in my experience anyway.
That’s not to say that there are not other forms of abuse. I’ve been called all sorts of things and have had my family insulted while I’m on the pitch, but you don’t say anything because at the end of the day the majority of things are said in the heat of the moment and even if you do say something, it’s not as if you mean it; it’s simply to try and rise your opponent and get the better of him.
Take it on the chin
Things like that happen in every sport; if you’re going to be in the public domain, you have to be able to take things on the chin.
Finally, having come back from two weeks holidays, it’s nice to see the way the league is shaping up and to see five teams in the hunt for the title. Also, it’s good to see Bray doing so well at the top half of the table for a change. Pat Devlin has them really well organised, they’re getting the points they deserve and a few lads have been getting their chances in Ireland under-age squads which is good to see.
People have been saying to me that they’re going to more games now because everything is so tight at the top and it makes it that bit more enjoyable. As it stands, there’s only five points separating the top five teams and I’m looking forward to seeing how it goes from here on in.
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