Just a question here....does anyone know if s female 6th form teacher sends text messages to a male students phone (17/18 year old) with kisses on the end-are they legally on dodgy ground or is that fine?
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Just a question here....does anyone know if s female 6th form teacher sends text messages to a male students phone (17/18 year old) with kisses on the end-are they legally on dodgy ground or is that fine?
How old is the teacher? Is she good looking?
Seems like you well in there ;)
legally its fine ( in ireland anyhow ) as the legal age of consent is 17 ( yes not 16 ) but i think in terms of abusing a position of power, she would be in serious trouble.
as pete says, most important thing to be learned here is, if she is a hottie then keep your mouth shut and tell her ul put it in her mouth, otherwise just dont bother responding at all, at the end of the day she is only human ;)
If she's hot, you lucky fecker!:D. If not, then, consult your solictor right away:p.
How did she get your number anyway?
Now why would everyone be persuming the lad in question is me??!
Purley asking if she could get in trouble legally/in her job for "X" on the end of each message or if it is to minor?
Sounds like she needs to be 'interviewed' by strangeirish and sirhamish.:eek: :D
She's a teacher and can't write??:DQuote:
Originally Posted by liam88
Just to be serious for a second, is it an all male school? If not, why is she sending text messages just to the male students?
Because you asked the question. You must have realised we were all gonna presume it's you anyway?:D.Quote:
Originally Posted by liam88
Don't try that "friend of mine..." trick ;)Quote:
Originally Posted by liam88
Not illegal.Quote:
Originally Posted by liam88
X means nothing as can be just term of affection without being sexual.
e.g. If he was off sick could send "Get well soon...X hottie teacher..." :D
Even if she was coming onto a student wouldn't be illegal just dodgy morally or in terms of code of practice for school.
Whats the deal with teachers texting students anyway?
heh heh - I'll set up that commision straight away strangeirish. "In camera" of course.:DQuote:
Originally Posted by strangeirish
On a serious note, any teacher sending messages to a student where the dialogue is romantic is crazy these days. We live in such a litigation conscious world, that such behaviour can only end in disaster.
That teacher needs to get out more often and meet her own age group at clubs, sports, discos etc.
To my credit, despite all my faults and TBH, having the morals of any alley cat when I was young:o , at nearly 20 years of teaching, I never entertained any notion of getting it on with young lady pupils because I wasn't interested and also 'cos there was plenty of p***y available in my own age group.
I reckon it's also any ego trip 'cos that teacher is enjoying the attention and letting it go to her silly little head.
in a thread loaded with innuendo sirhamish is the voice of reason!!!:eek:
Come off it Liam, this is like sirhamish asking if it's alright to date a cousin... :DQuote:
Originally Posted by liam88
What did the text message say?
There's nowhere near enough information given to make a call on this. A lot of my female friends invariably end their texts, to both men and women, with x's. On the face of it, i wouldn't read anything into it. I'd be more concerned about the content of the written message.
On teachers having mobile nums of class pupils, i reckon if he/she has a fair few of the kids' numbers then alright. Would seem strange to only have one or two... but then again there could be a reason for that e'g. neighbours, family connections, etc.
Like i said, not enough known about it to make a worthy decision.
Yeah the old "XXX" could be force of habit. Some women go nuts on that in every message.
A teacher in my secondary had given her number to a fair few students but she was ridiculously friendly.
Closest thing that every actually happened along those lines that I've known about was that a fella from the previous year kopped off with a teacher at the debs.
You wernt in school with Ross O'Carroll-Kelly were you ;)Quote:
Originally Posted by Poor Student
Im training to be a teacher at the mo andf while it's not illegal whatever the context of the message shes just asking for trouble....The Dept of Education would not look lightly on this and would see it as inapproapriate for a teacher to be even texting a studentQuote:
Originally Posted by liam88
If a female teacher "seduces" a male student, he's a jammy sod and she's a randy goat.
If a male teacher "seduces" a female student, he's a paedophile and she's a victim.
and so it should be.
Not quite, but it was full of obnoxious rugger buggers.Quote:
Originally Posted by Ash
At my sixth form a male teacher was very friendly with a female pupil. Everyone thought it was odd, even his wife who also taught at the school. Got to a point where the wife confronted the girl, who was in her form class(It really was way too friendly). This all kicked off just as we were leaving. Then a while back there was a piece on him in the Standard where he was accused of being too friendly with a female pupil at his new school, meeting alone outside of school etc.
As for 'X' on the end of her message, dont think its really a problem, but it depends on what the message said I guess.
True, maybe she was just asking if he was going to the game in Turners X :pQuote:
Originally Posted by Babysis
LOL y that was probably it. liam always has the cork jersey on him.
nope, not appropiate at all for her to be even texting the brat(sorry Liam, obviously if it is you I am not calling you a brat :D ) She really has no clue and has no respect for her job. She is def in the wrong.
Good God, dunno what came over me - promise I won't do it again klein4.;)Quote:
Originally Posted by klein4
That was just a geeral question Macy....honest.:oQuote:
Originally Posted by Macy
Oh, and I said a DISTANT cousin.:p :)
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Originally Posted by sirhamish
You weird B'sloe folk! :eek: :D
Apparently anything other than a first cousin can be considered. Second cousins you need a dispensation to get married because of a problem called Consanguinity.... third cousins apparently are open season.... or so I am told!
Good.;)Quote:
Originally Posted by CollegeTillIDie
I'm sure few people would know who their 2nd cousins are let alone their 3rd cousins...?Quote:
Originally Posted by CollegeTillIDie
I do.:p :DQuote:
Originally Posted by pete
And very well by the sounds of things :eek: :DQuote:
Originally Posted by sirhamish
heh heh - nah, just friendly with them, that's all nowadays.:)Quote:
Originally Posted by Dazzy
Quote Sirhamishcr I never entertained any notion of getting it on with young lady pupils because I wasn't interested and also 'cos there was plenty of p***y available in my own age group.
Jaysus Noel thank god you put a y at the end of P*** and not an S or i would be seriously worried.Anyway you secrets are safe with me.:)
On a similar note...is it wrong for an official or coach of a football club to get involved with a team member? Or even a player for another team??? Just wondering in case Johnny Lester and I hook up....dont want to lose my job!
Oh and how much younger than me is very bold??
Kind regards....the horny goat mentioned earlier....:D
It's "randy" goat, and so long as no one is a minor, you should be ok.Quote:
Originally Posted by Magicme
Watch Bend it like Beckham though. ;)
not that you arent always ,I was just impressed that you resisted your natural "urges"!(altho you didnt for long!)Quote:
Originally Posted by sirhamish
Oh yeah sorry!Quote:
Originally Posted by Peadar
Yeah saw Bend it like Beckham....its more reminisent of another situation in the club!
8 or 9 years younger than me is not too much of a gap is it??
:eek:
Not if you're fit! :p :DQuote:
Originally Posted by Magicme