I would be more optimistic SR, although it will take a long time for some of the slower learners on both sides of the political divide here.
I think Her Majesty's visit to the Garden Of Remembrance in Dublin last year, and the visit of The Taoiseach and The Tánaiste to Remembrance Day Services in Northern Ireland on Sunday example how mutual respect can be shown and built upon.
There is much in our shared history to reconcile us, and I hope that can be explored in greater detail.