Heads & Brick Walls (or should that be "Brick Heads"?)
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Originally Posted by
Maribor
I have been a regular attender at Windsor Park, both before and after "Football for All" started.
Has there been huge improvements? Yes
Is it much less intimidating than it was? Yes
However personally I still feel that I shouldn't feel guilty for saying that I would prefer a "new anthem". You talk of your identity being taking away, yet you feel unable to allow for the Catholics, such as myself, who feel as if our identity isn't represented.
You summed it up some pages back when you classed yourself as British and then Northern Irish. Hand over ther baton to some of the more progressive thinkers amongst the OWC support, and there are many, as they can debate this much more effectively than you.
I have been reading this debate between DCFCSteve and David with increasing bewilderment. How people can invest so much energy in squabbling over pretty much irrelevant or unimportant details is beyond me - especially when it serves only to detract from the real issue, which is a football match.
As I see it, David is misguided in thinking that following the NI football team in some way validates or reinforces his Britishness. Yes, NI is part of the UK and therefore its anthem is GSTQ and official flag is the UJ. So what? In the end, GSTQ is merely two minutes before the match and as such, pretty much unimportant to the main proceedings. The UJ doesn't fly at NI internationals (and very few fans carry it now, as well). FIFA/UEFA require that National Flags be flown, so for NI, this is the NI flag. Frankly, it can't even be seen from 2/3 of the ground and the rest of us don't spend our time staring at it any more than we do the floodlight pylons. People like David should try, however, to understand how these may make Catholics/Nationalists uncomfortable. Then, remind themselves that when rugby fans from NI go to Lansdowne for a match, where they fly the Tricolour and play The Soldiers Song (neither of which represents our particular part of Ireland), the best attitude is "Stand Up, Shut Up, then Sit Down and Enjoy the Bloody Game". (At least, that is what I do - it does not make me any more "Oirish" or any less "British" - or, at least, it didn't the last time I looked)
As for Steve, I have to say, your reading of what actually goes on at NI matches - home and away - appears somewhat outdated and misinformed. It is no longer a Prod- or BritFest i.e. an opportunity for the Billy Boys to prove their "loyalty" and keep the Taigs in their place (in so far as it ever was). Really determined attempts both at Official Level (e.g. the IFA's "Football For All") and Unofficial Level (e.g. Sea of Green), plus the Block Booking process, have been hugely successful in eradicating the majority of previous bad behaviour.
Of course, there are still isolated individuals who have yet to catch up with the evolutionary process, but like the rest of the Dinosaurs, it is to be hoped that they will die out in time.
As such, they are about as typical of the mainstream NI support as those individuals at ROI matches who e.g. booed Holland's Rangers players, or waved Palestinian flags at the Israel team, or shout "Up the RA" during the Field of Athenry are of ROI mainstream fans i.e. not at all.
Therefore I feel Maribor has got it spot on - with a degree of tolerance and reason on all sides, there is no compelling reason why someone from a Nationalist background cannot support NI, just as there should be no remark passed should they prefer to support the ROI. It's all about choosing which is the most comfortable and inspiring atmosphere to enjoy a game of football and all the crack that goes with it.
Beyond that, all I would say to Steve is this:
You have indicated that you have still got some residual "feeling" for the NI team - even if certain circumstances deter you from taking it further. Can I suggest that you make the effort to attend a game? I'm sure I could arrange a spare ticket or two and I'd be happy for you to be my guest when next I travel back to Belfast from London. If you still don't like it, then fair enough, but I am very confident that you will be pleasantly surprised. You might even bump into one or two of your Derry City mates!
As for David, I think you need to chill: it's a football match we're talking about, no more than that. Different fans invest different passions into the game, nobody needs to prove or disprove anything - the only thing that really counts is that we can get behind 11 lads doing their best for our wee part of the world for 90 minutes.
For the record, even though I don't carry one, I personally am quite happy with the NI flag, but would prefer to see (the dirge-like) GSTQ replaced as an Anthem by something peculiarly Northern Irish - after all, it is NI I support in football, not the UK. (Re this latter point, I wouldn't be surprised if I was in a majority of the support - or near it, at least)
Beyond that, if there should be any other ex-NI fans out there, whose allegiance has transferred to the ROI, you might consider coming back into the fold, as well. After all, with the way our teams' respective fortunes seem to be shaping up on the field, if you leave it too late, you might just get a name for being "glory-hunters", that is, when we overtake you on your way down! ;)
Bring On The Mighty Icelanders! :D