Originally Posted by
dcfcsteve
Whilst this has absolutely nothing to do with the fact that an NI team shouldn't be dressed-up in either a British or an Irish identity, I'll ingratiate you with your little detour.
It goes back to 1985 for me. I supported NI in the 1982 World Cup as a kid, as did most of my mates at the time.
Then in 1985, Derry City finally got back into senior footnall - after years of being snubbed by the IFA. I got the bug - City games home and away became a massive part of my life as a young kid, and I was hugely grateful that the FAI had given us the chance of being back in the game. A chance that our own supposed guardians of the game had consistently refused on very dubious grounds.
Therefore - when it came to Mexico 86, being honest I found it difficult to support the NI team any more. The ROI team were no great shakes at the time (though they did narrowly miss out on qualification for Mexico), though as my footballing universe revolved around the FAI it should be no great surprise that I became increasingly interested in football matters in Dublin. So, my allegiances started to shift before the Republic were 'good' and before the North became 'bad' - because of my footballing frame of reference (Derry in the LOI). I wasn't following glory - I felt a sense of loyalty to the FAI/Republic for helping my team, and zero loyalty to the north for trying to destroy my team. This would've been a broadly felt sentiment in Derry at the time, where we were getting crowds of 10,000 at home games (i.e. alot of people started to draw the same conclusion).
As I got older, incidents like Anton Rogan, Neil Lennon, the NI v ROI games in the early 1990's etc made me thankful that I wasn't a supporter of the north any more - reinforcing my decision further.
Could I ever support the north again ? Yes - most definitely. But what you need to realise is that the Unionist trappings the team has chosen to tie itself up in make it the footballing equivalent of a drive through Macosquin for me. I don't feel comfortable going through areas with red, white, and blue kerbstones and flags on lamposts, and the concept of supporting a one-sided northern team makes me feel the same way. Please try and understand and accept this - rather than just question and/or attack it.