I think if you read back I did say Stuttgart should not have called you a tosser so not trying to take any moral high ground here i just dont think personal abuse or personal insults works on a forum. (not that it works in any walk of life). I am not sure you of your point though, cause I was against Paul O Shea abusing you the other day so I am pretty consistant on this.
I agree that a bit of leeway should be used maybe, but you dont practice what you preach about.