A bit of a morbid thread I suppose but bear with me. When you go how do you want to be disposed of? I've always wanted to be cremated because I have no more spirituality than an intelligent chimp and I felt it would be a bit hypocritical of me to wind up in some graveyard.
Recently though a girl I know from Derry passed away. I couldn't get to Derry in time for the funeral but I contented myself in the knowledge that I head up in my own time and say goodbye at her grave in my own way. Then after the event I found out that she was cremated. Obviously I can't complain, it's none of my business first of all and given that it's what I want for myself...
But it just got me thinking that a grave can serve a very valuable purpose. I'm still leaning towards cremation for when I'm outta time but I'm just curious as to what other people think?