Anyone teach/work in education? [Archive]

liam88

08/02/2006, 9:25 PM

pete

08/02/2006, 9:43 PM

How old is the teacher? Is she good looking?

Seems like you well in there ;)

paul_oshea

08/02/2006, 9:55 PM

legally its fine ( in ireland anyhow ) as the legal age of consent is 17 ( yes not 16 ) but i think in terms of abusing a position of power, she would be in serious trouble.

as pete says, most important thing to be learned here is, if she is a hottie then keep your mouth shut and tell her ul put it in her mouth, otherwise just dont bother responding at all, at the end of the day she is only human ;)

sligoman

08/02/2006, 9:57 PM

If she's hot, you lucky fecker!:D. If not, then, consult your solictor right away:p.

How did she get your number anyway?

liam88

08/02/2006, 10:16 PM

Now why would everyone be persuming the lad in question is me??!

Purley asking if she could get in trouble legally/in her job for "X" on the end of each message or if it is to minor?

strangeirish

08/02/2006, 10:24 PM

Sounds like she needs to be 'interviewed' by strangeirish and sirhamish.:eek: :D

strangeirish

08/02/2006, 10:28 PM

Purley asking if she could get in trouble legally/in her job for "X" on the end of each message or if it is to minor?

She's a teacher and can't write??:D

Just to be serious for a second, is it an all male school? If not, why is she sending text messages just to the male students?

sligoman

08/02/2006, 10:31 PM

Now why would everyone be persuming the lad in question is me??!Because you asked the question. You must have realised we were all gonna presume it's you anyway?:D.

pete

08/02/2006, 11:21 PM

Now why would everyone be persuming the lad in question is me??!

Don't try that "friend of mine..." trick ;)

Purley asking if she could get in trouble legally/in her job for "X" on the end of each message or if it is to minor?

Not illegal.

X means nothing as can be just term of affection without being sexual.
e.g. If he was off sick could send "Get well soon...X hottie teacher..." :D

Even if she was coming onto a student wouldn't be illegal just dodgy morally or in terms of code of practice for school.

Dodge

08/02/2006, 11:34 PM

Whats the deal with teachers texting students anyway?

hamish

09/02/2006, 1:28 AM

Sounds like she needs to be 'interviewed' by strangeirish and sirhamish.

heh heh - I'll set up that commision straight away strangeirish. "In camera" of course.:D

On a serious note, any teacher sending messages to a student where the dialogue is romantic is crazy these days. We live in such a litigation conscious world, that such behaviour can only end in disaster.
That teacher needs to get out more often and meet her own age group at clubs, sports, discos etc.
To my credit, despite all my faults and TBH, having the morals of any alley cat when I was young:o , at nearly 20 years of teaching, I never entertained any notion of getting it on with young lady pupils because I wasn't interested and also 'cos there was plenty of p***y available in my own age group.

I reckon it's also any ego trip 'cos that teacher is enjoying the attention and letting it go to her silly little head.

klein4

09/02/2006, 8:13 AM

in a thread loaded with innuendo sirhamish is the voice of reason!!!:eek:

Macy

09/02/2006, 8:23 AM

Now why would everyone be persuming the lad in question is me??!
Come off it Liam, this is like sirhamish asking if it's alright to date a cousin... :D

pete

09/02/2006, 9:25 AM

What did the text message say?

fosterdollar

09/02/2006, 9:43 AM

There's nowhere near enough information given to make a call on this. A lot of my female friends invariably end their texts, to both men and women, with x's. On the face of it, i wouldn't read anything into it. I'd be more concerned about the content of the written message.

On teachers having mobile nums of class pupils, i reckon if he/she has a fair few of the kids' numbers then alright. Would seem strange to only have one or two... but then again there could be a reason for that e'g. neighbours, family connections, etc.

Like i said, not enough known about it to make a worthy decision.

Poor Student

09/02/2006, 9:50 AM

Yeah the old "XXX" could be force of habit. Some women go nuts on that in every message.

A teacher in my secondary had given her number to a fair few students but she was ridiculously friendly.

Closest thing that every actually happened along those lines that I've known about was that a fella from the previous year kopped off with a teacher at the debs.

Ash

09/02/2006, 9:58 AM

Closest thing that every actually happened along those lines that I've known about was that a fella from the previous year kopped off with a teacher at the debs.

You wernt in school with Ross O'Carroll-Kelly were you ;)

micls

09/02/2006, 10:56 AM

Just a question here....does anyone know if s female 6th form teacher sends text messages to a male students phone (17/18 year old) with kisses on the end-are they legally on dodgy ground or is that fine?

Im training to be a teacher at the mo andf while it's not illegal whatever the context of the message shes just asking for trouble....The Dept of Education would not look lightly on this and would see it as inapproapriate for a teacher to be even texting a student

Peadar

09/02/2006, 11:50 AM

If a female teacher "seduces" a male student, he's a jammy sod and she's a randy goat.

If a male teacher "seduces" a female student, he's a paedophile and she's a victim.

klein4

09/02/2006, 12:05 PM

and so it should be.

Poor Student

09/02/2006, 12:23 PM

You wernt in school with Ross O'Carroll-Kelly were you ;)

Not quite, but it was full of obnoxious rugger buggers.

Babysis

09/02/2006, 12:42 PM

At my sixth form a male teacher was very friendly with a female pupil. Everyone thought it was odd, even his wife who also taught at the school. Got to a point where the wife confronted the girl, who was in her form class(It really was way too friendly). This all kicked off just as we were leaving. Then a while back there was a piece on him in the Standard where he was accused of being too friendly with a female pupil at his new school, meeting alone outside of school etc.

As for 'X' on the end of her message, dont think its really a problem, but it depends on what the message said I guess.

Ash

09/02/2006, 12:57 PM

As for 'X' on the end of her message, dont think its really a problem, but it depends on what the message said I guess.

True, maybe she was just asking if he was going to the game in Turners X :p

paul_oshea

09/02/2006, 4:13 PM

LOL y that was probably it. liam always has the cork jersey on him.

Green Tribe

09/02/2006, 5:04 PM

nope, not appropiate at all for her to be even texting the brat(sorry Liam, obviously if it is you I am not calling you a brat :D ) She really has no clue and has no respect for her job. She is def in the wrong.

hamish

09/02/2006, 5:07 PM

in a thread loaded with innuendo sirhamish is the voice of reason!!!:eek:

Good God, dunno what came over me - promise I won't do it again klein4.;)

hamish

09/02/2006, 5:08 PM

Come off it Liam, this is like sirhamish asking if it's alright to date a cousin...

That was just a geeral question Macy....honest.:o

Oh, and I said a DISTANT cousin.:p :)

Green Tribe

09/02/2006, 5:12 PM

That was just a geeral question Macy....honest.:o

Oh, and I said a DISTANT cousin.

You weird B'sloe folk! :eek: :D

CollegeTillIDie

09/02/2006, 5:18 PM

Apparently anything other than a first cousin can be considered. Second cousins you need a dispensation to get married because of a problem called Consanguinity.... third cousins apparently are open season.... or so I am told!

hamish

09/02/2006, 5:20 PM

... third cousins apparently are open season

Good.;)

pete

09/02/2006, 5:21 PM

hamish

09/02/2006, 5:23 PM

I'm sure few people would know who their 2nd cousins are let alone their 3rd cousins...?

I do.:p :D

Dazzy

09/02/2006, 9:50 PM

I do.

And very well by the sounds of things :eek: :D

hamish

09/02/2006, 10:54 PM

And very well by the sounds of things :eek: :D

heh heh - nah, just friendly with them, that's all nowadays.:)

FarBeag

10/02/2006, 12:04 AM

Quote Sirhamishcr I never entertained any notion of getting it on with young lady pupils because I wasn't interested and also 'cos there was plenty of p***y available in my own age group.

Jaysus Noel thank god you put a y at the end of P*** and not an S or i would be seriously worried.Anyway you secrets are safe with me.:)

Magicme

10/02/2006, 8:13 AM

On a similar note...is it wrong for an official or coach of a football club to get involved with a team member? Or even a player for another team??? Just wondering in case Johnny Lester and I hook up....dont want to lose my job!

Oh and how much younger than me is very bold??

Kind regards....the horny goat mentioned earlier....:D

Peadar

10/02/2006, 8:18 AM

Kind regards....the horny goat mentioned earlier....:D

It's "randy" goat, and so long as no one is a minor, you should be ok.
Watch Bend it like Beckham though. ;)

klein4

10/02/2006, 8:21 AM

Good God, dunno what came over me - promise I won't do it again klein4.;)
not that you arent always ,I was just impressed that you resisted your natural "urges"!(altho you didnt for long!)

Magicme

10/02/2006, 9:27 AM

It's "randy" goat, and so long as no one is a minor, you should be ok.
Watch Bend it like Beckham though. ;)

Oh yeah sorry!

Yeah saw Bend it like Beckham....its more reminisent of another situation in the club!

8 or 9 years younger than me is not too much of a gap is it??

:eek:

Peadar

10/02/2006, 1:13 PM

8 or 9 years younger than me is not too much of a gap is it??

:eek:

Not if you're fit! :p :D

Magicme

10/02/2006, 1:34 PM

Not if you're fit! :p :D

'Fraid not Peadar but somehow always seem to pull young men....."here's to u missus Robinson"....

Peadar

10/02/2006, 1:37 PM

'Fraid not Peadar

I meant fit as in attractive.
If you were attractive then it wouldn't be a problem for the younger guy to be out with you.

sligoman

10/02/2006, 2:05 PM

'Fraid not Peadar but somehow always seem to pull young men....."here's to u missus Robinson"....*sneaks quietly away, closing the door behind him*:o

:p.

hamish

10/02/2006, 5:57 PM

Quote Sirhamish

Jaysus Noel thank god you put a y at the end of P*** and not an S or i would be seriously worried.Anyway you secrets are safe with me.:)

pusses???

*sneaks quietly away, closing the door behind him*

sligoman? magicme?

Is there something ye both should be telling us??:p :D :confused:

(altho you didnt for long!)

not with the students anyway;) :)

sligoman

10/02/2006, 6:20 PM

sligoman? magicme?

Is there something ye both should be telling us??:p :confused:No, I don't even know her;)

AidoM

10/02/2006, 7:28 PM

That was just a geeral question Macy....honest

Oh, and I said a DISTANT cousin.:p :)

Does this mean she lives far away:confused:

hamish

10/02/2006, 8:46 PM

Does this mean she lives far away

aidoM/aidoB - I think strangeirish mentioned that on another thread :D - just meant the ditance with regard to family ties.

You believe me - don't you aidoM/aidoB???:D

Dazzy

10/02/2006, 10:00 PM

aidoM/aidoB - I think strangeirish mentioned that on another thread - just meant the ditance with regard to family ties.

You believe me - don't you aidoM/aidoB???:D

Everyone believes you just keep telling yourself that:eek: :D